First nights can be a real nightmare for many. It is after all the first time you will be in bed with your husband. The man you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. The pressure can be crushing. That is the story of a lot of Indian Women. But while everyone around you might not be of a lot of help, we have your back. Listen from the women who have been in the headspace where you are or will be right now.
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Remember Me. The first time I saw his penis I was shocked — his erection was bigger than I had expected it to be The wedding was over, but the memory of music, candlelight and conversation lingered as I sat on the petal-strewn bed of our hotel room. I was a virgin at the time; we both were. We had decided to wait until we were married before we had sex. Being year-olds in love and madly attracted to each other, this was no easy feat. We had our reasons for waiting, but as the wedding date neared it became harder for us to hold back. Being Christians, we believed that sexual freedom should be expressed within the boundaries of marriage and we wanted our increased physical intimacy to be in line with our commitment to each other. I also saw my virginity as a gift I could give to my husband.
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It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. All parent-child relationships do. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. Keep things going and see what happens. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom.
He spends about 80 hours a week at the hospital. I would need to ask my husband again. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. What about the folks at church. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. Don't put them through that either. These are nice people. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband.